The Best Historic Estate & Mansion Wedding Venues in Sag Harbor, NY

The Best Historic Estate & Mansion Wedding Venues in Sag Harbor, NY

How do we sort results, including Sponsored Ads and personalized results?


26 Wedding Venues in Sag Harbor, NY

Historic estates, mansions
Clear
Quick responder
Westbury Manor 

4.8

  • Up to 300 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $5,000
  • Offer

The Perfect Setting For Your Special Occasion Welcome to Westbury Manor, Long Island’s premier venue for weddings, corporate affairs, family celebrations, and social gatherings. When you plan an event at Westbury Manor, we are dedicated to creating a individualized experience. Our lush, sophisticated surroundings are the perfect backdrop to any occasion. Set upon 5 acres of meticulously landscaped gardens and grounds, our historic mansion is home to several ballrooms and cocktail rooms that can be adapted to any mood or celebration. Our professional staff is dedicated to creating a seamless experience for you and your guests. We are delighted to welcome your family and friends, and most of all, to help you make your event truly your own.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Versatile for various event styles
  • Provides lighting and sound
  • Provides setup and cleanup

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • No on-site guest accommodations
  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
Awarded Best of Zola
The staff at Westbury truly know how to put on an amazing wedding. The food was amazing, the staff was amazing, the gardens were amazing. I couldn’t of asked for a better wedding venue.
Serena B., a year ago
Quick responder
Moby's NY 

5.0

East Hampton, NY
  • Up to 250 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $30,000

Moby’s, situated in a lovingly restored 1880s home along the scenic stretch of Highway 27 leading to Montauk in East Hampton, beckons with its seasonal Italian cuisine, cocktails, and everlasting summertime enchantment. The restaurant offers a blend of indoor, outdoor, and patio dining experiences, providing a charming ambiance for culinary delights amidst historic allure. Amidst this charming backdrop, Moby's transforms into a versatile event venue, catering to gatherings of all sizes, from intimate dinners to grand affairs, Moby's offers a range of event spaces providing a seamless indoor-outdoor experience.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has a glamorous vibe
  • Provides a dedicated team on-site
  • Flexible event spaces

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Does not allow pets
  • On-site parking not available
Awarded Best of Zola
Not only is Moby's a beautiful spot to have a wedding, but the team there is truly the best to work with. John went above and beyond to make our dream wedding day come to life and made us feel so special and taken care of. The communication was amazing and the service was next level throughout the whole planning process. John knew exactly what to do and accommodated all my requests. Planning a wedding was made so much easier by the Moby's team and our guests absolutely loved the food and setting. I would recommend Moby's to anyone wanting a Hamptons wedding. If I had to do it all over again, I would choose Moby's every time.
Meg H., 4 months ago
TrendlineTrending
The Lace Factory 

5.0

Deep River, CT
  • Up to 225 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor

Even if one didn't put their own personal touches to this space it is still stunning. So much natural and creative lighting with a beautiful courtyard for reception or ceremony. Industrial history, attention to detail and location! Covid procedures and restriction apply.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Provides a dedicated team on-site
  • Pets can join the celebration
  • Combines timeless elegance with history

Venue considerations

  • Best for events with big guest lists
  • No on-premises lodging options
I honestly forget if I already wrote a review for The Lace Factory, but recently I was reflecting on our wedding day and a few things stuck out that had me so thankful we held our reception at The Lace Factory. From the beginning of the planning process the team is extremely clear and communicative. I love a checklist and theirs is one that ensures nothing will be forgotten. Our guests are still sharing how gorgeous the venue was, how incredible the food spread was, and one detail I was surprised by, from my cousin who has been to their fair share of large celebrations. "The food was not only delicious, but they managed to serve such a large group and the food was actually hot!" This speaks to the well-oiled machine that is The Lace Factory and it must be emphasized that this machine has heart. They accomplished another feat of having my family and I not worry about the severe allergy of my dad, as they adjusted the menu accordingly, without us having to miss out on all the options. This carried over to assist some guests who also had specific dietary needs. I realize this sounds boring, but it is wonderful to know your guests are safe and fed and focus on the celebrating! The Lace Factory is a venue that can transform your wedding into something beyond your dreams while holding true to your vision.
Annie S., 5 months ago
Quick responder
Bill Miller's Castle 

5.0

Branford, CT
  • Up to 250 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $9,000

A magnificent, breathtaking landmark, Bill Miller’s Castle has served as an elegant venue for weddings, corporate events, and special occasions. Meticulous attention to detail, natural stonework, exposed reclaimed beams, an antique bronze bell weighing more than one ton, and rare antique furniture create a beautiful backdrop for any event or special occasion. Featuring five working field-stone fireplaces, three-story cathedral ceilings, ornate stained glass windows, crystal chandeliers, and a large dance floor; the grandeur of Bill Miller’s Castle will make your guests feel truly extraordinary from the moment they walk through the door.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Multiple event spaces
  • Bridal suite on site
  • Historic touches

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • No on-site guest accommodations
  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
Awarded Best of Zola
If you have the means to, choose Bill Miller's as your venue! My now husband and I were treated like royalty from the first tour to our wedding day. We were never without a beverage and were well fed (almost too full!). Mary was our coordinator, and was never hard to reach. We chose this venue for a few reasons: we would have the venue for the whole day to ourselves, all-inclusive with fantastic food and great drinks, a solid indoor/rain option for the ceremony, and a coordinator was included. Bill Miller's really made our day seamless and everything was incredible. Thank you Mary and everyone at Bill Miller's for a wonderful stress-free day!
Bianca D., 7 months ago
Quick responder
Woodwinds 

4.4

Branford, CT
  • Up to 600 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $115

WoodWinds is one of the most sought after Connecticut wedding venues for wedding receptions, banquets, corporate events or any special occasion, in the Tri-State area. A wedding in our impressive European Country Manor will reflect your personal vision. Imagine a magical experience, enhanced by a unique ceremony and reception on the beautiful grounds of WoodWinds. Envision standing on a grand staircase under the twinkle of Austrian Crystal chandeliers, taking pictures in a magnificent garden and dancing the night away on a marble dance floor.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Bridal suite on site
  • Provides a dedicated team on-site
  • Provides catering services

Venue considerations

  • Does not allow pets
  • No free parking
  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
The venue had a few hiccups, but overall we had a lovely reception there. The outdoor space was the highlight - truly gorgeous for photos. Communication on coordination was a bit spotty at times, but the maître d', Sergio, was a god send and stepped in to ensure things flowed smoothly. The food was phenomenal, as well! So many of our guests shared it was the best wedding food they’d ever had. We did have both our bridal attendants provided by the venue disappear on us shortly after we arrived, which was inconvenient since we would have paid for our own attendants if we knew that would be the case. While parts of the indoor space is dated, it worked out beautifully with some creative decor. When weighing everything in, the Woodwinds was a spectacular venue!
Negeena & M., 5 months ago
Quick responder
The Woodwinds at The Blackstone Library 

5.0

Branford, CT
  • Up to 475 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $9,000

The James Blackstone Memorial Library, commonly known as the Blackstone Library, in Branford, Connecticut, is a historic and elegant venue perfect for weddings. Commissioned by Timothy Blackstone to honor his father, James Blackstone, the library was designed by renowned architect Solon Spencer Beman and completed in 1896. Its classic architectural features and serene ambiance make it an enchanting backdrop for wedding ceremonies and receptions. Woodwinds Catering enhances the wedding experience at the Blackstone Library with exquisite culinary offerings and impeccable service. Their attention to detail ensures that every aspect of the wedding day is flawlessly executed, from planning to the final toast. The library’s stunning exterior, with its intricate stonework and majestic columns, provides a picturesque setting for wedding photographs. Inside, the elegant interiors with high ceilings and rich woodwork create a warm and inviting atmosphere for guests.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has a dance floor for celebration
  • Has an intimate atmosphere
  • Full catering menu to choose from

Venue considerations

  • Best for events with big guest lists
  • No on-site guest accommodations
  • No in-house lighting and sound packages available
Worked with the woodwinds at the library and they were so helpful. They showed me ahead of time where I was setting up, on arrival they had a table waiting for me. They even made sure I ate (the food is delicious!!!) I hope I get to work with them in the future!
Jay, 5 months ago
Quick responder
Riverbend 

4.2

Higganum, CT
  • Up to 300 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $25,000

Welcome to Connecticut Wedding Group's latest jewel, Riverbend—a masterpiece poised to claim its title as the state’s foremost wedding destination, with an opening scheduled for 2026! Nestled in the heart of Higganum, this venue seamlessly blends the rich tapestry of the town's industrial history with a contemporary touch, resulting in an unmatched fusion of industrial charm and modern elegance. As you step through the entrance, prepare to be enchanted by a stunning architectural marvel nestled within a lovingly restored industrial gem. Towering, exposed-beam ceilings create an expansive atmosphere, and the weathered brickwork shares the timeless tales of a bygone era. Bathed in sunlight pouring through expansive windows, every corner is adorned with a soft, natural glow, ensuring that your celebration emanates with an undeniable warmth and inherent beauty. At Riverbend, history meets modernity to create the perfect backdrop for your special day.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has a dance floor for celebration
  • All-inclusive venue packages
  • Dressing room available

Venue considerations

  • On-site parking not available
  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
  • Not wheelchair accessible
Full disclaimer, my husband and I both work for Connecticut Wedding Group. So, you may think this post is a tad biased, but we'd have to disagree... You see at the start of our engagement we did entertain some "obligatory" research, but, this was incredibly short lived. We came to the quick conclusion, before we even got to scheduling tours, that there's simply no way we could ever put our biggest investment in anyones hands but our own planning & culinary teams. Every weekend we see our couples share their big day with all of the most important people in their lives. A moment you only get once, and our team pours their whole hearts into making every minute pure perfection. My husband was (hands down) here for the food, while I was here so I didn't need to plan my own wedding and worry about all the logistics that my brain normally can't avoid. Our guests continue to rave. It was the best day ever, and we are so deeply grateful to our team for doing what they do. Our only regret is we can't do it again and again and again.
Allie & D., a year ago
The Wadsworth Mansion At Long Hill Estate 

5.0

Middletown, CT
  • Up to 200 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $25,000

The Wadsworth Mansion, a nineteenth-century Beaux Art style mansion, is the quintessential country estate. Graced by expansive lawns and surrounded by 103 acres of wooded parklands the Mansion reflects an era of grandeur and elegance. There are multiple locations for outdoor ceremonies and guests can enjoy cocktails and dance on the terrace under the stars. The Mansion can accommodate two hundred guests for a seated dinner reception and larger numbers for cocktail parties. Only one event is scheduled each day and couples can select from a list of approved caterers to create the wedding of their dreams.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away
  • Versatile for various event styles
  • Private area for the wedding party

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • No built-in audiovisual options
  • No on-site guest accommodations
Weeks later, we're still absolutely gushing over the Mansion! It was the perfect venue for our wedding. They had it all, from phenomenal staff to luxurious facilities, not to mention the stunning views. We had the pleasure of working with Alexandra(Alex) we could not have asked for a better person! Alex knew all of our family members and bridal party’s names, and was extremely personable. She went above and beyond to make sure we were taken care of all night. She brought me a snack before the ceremony and continuously brought me my water all day and night (without me asking)They truly make you feel like a VIP throughout your entire day and their top notch team(along with our caterer David Alan) ensured that everything ran smoothly behind the scenes. In the early stages of planning we worked with Jessica Hess and she is extremely helpful and communicative. The mansion truly felt like home for the day. We hosted our ceremony on the vista , cocktail hour was on the terrace, and we had dinner in the East ballroom. Guests were in awe of the estate (we also lucked out with absolutely perfect weather), and how every detail was perfectly executed. Our special day was truly a dream and felt like it was out of a movie! We could not recommend the Wadsworth Mansion enough, and can't wait to return for future celebrations. It's definitely well-worth the investment and would 10/10 recommend hosting your special day here! Ps ask about the beautiful custom made bar (my stepdad built it) Our wedding Venue: The Wadsworth Mansion Photographer: Crystal Photography Second Shooter: Jenn Tee Photography Videographer: Jf3 Productions DJ: AMS - Mikey Tierney Caterer: David Alan Hospitality Group Bar: Cocktail Crusiers Gown: Grace Loves Lace Flower Girl Dress: Grace Loves Lace Tuxedo & Suits: Generation Tux Makeup: Upstyle Co. Autumn Starke Hair: The Hair Factory - Danielle Gagnon Getting Ready Suite: The Apiary Collective Cake: J Cakes MOB Dress: Camilyn Beth Bridal Bouquet & Boutonnière: Haworths Flower
Arianna C., 6 months ago
TrendlineTrending
Saint Clements Castle 

5.0

Portland, CT
  • Up to 260 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $120

Where the castle meets the river, Saint Clements Castle & Marina, is Connecticut’s premier wedding and event venue in Portland. Situated along the banks of the river, each of the three unique event spaces provide a picturesque and scenic backdrop of the riverside and lush greenery while outdoors. Inside, you will find newly renovated historical charm for a variety of special events, including weddings, showers, corporate meetings, and other celebrations. Saint Clements Castle has earned a reputation of an elevated and enchanting setting perfect for all things in life worth celebrating. Saint Clements Castle and Marina’s location, in central Connecticut, is easily accessible as a midpoint from the New York City and Boston areas.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Bridal suite on site
  • All-inclusive venue packages
  • Provides event staff

Venue considerations

  • Best for events with big guest lists
  • No on-site guest accommodations
  • No built-in audiovisual options
Awarded Best of Zola
Saint Clements Castle provided a beautiful venue and kind staff for our wedding day. We especially appreciated our sales coordinator, Alyssa, who was professional, fast, and clear in her communication throughout the planning process. When rain forced us to move the ceremony indoors, the team quickly adapted the art gallery for us. The servers and bridal attendants were also attentive and went above and beyond to help finish set up when our florist left early. Our guests had incredibly kind things to say about the servers, and overall we had a great experience. It was also lovely to have a place that was a one stop shop for event planning! We did lose some decor in the shuffle which was an inconvenience, and some of the instructions for set up I left were not followed (our confetti got lost, only four guests got packets, the bridal suites did not have the supplies we left for them). My husband’s family were also really upset with one of the managers on property who wouldn’t allow them to walk in a covered area and was a bit rude about it, despite an event not happening and the rain being a torrential downpour causing unsafe conditions for his elderly family to walk in. Overall we had a great experience, and would recommend the castle to anyone planning a wedding!
Elise D., 6 months ago
TrendlineTrending
Watermill Caterers 

4.2

Smithtown, NY
  • Up to 500 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor

One of Long Island's best-kept secrets, our sprawling estate is nestled in the heart of Suffolk County and is surrounded by manicured landscapes, winding pathways and historic architecture. With an atmosphere of rustic elegance and timeless beauty, the Watermill is the perfect marriage of old-world charm and luxurious modern comforts—perfectly providing the finest amenities and endless enchantments at every turn. For more than 25 years, the Watermill has fostered joy and thousands of lasting memories through an unyielding commitment to providing unparalleled service, award-winning cuisine, and an unforgettable experience for each and every guest who walks through our doors.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has a chic vibe
  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away
  • Full catering menu to choose from

Venue considerations

  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
  • Does not allow pets
  • Not for you if you are looking for something nontraditional
Watermill did an amazing job with our wedding day! The service was excellent, the food was excellent and the venue was beautiful. The bridal staff attended to our everyneed and Watermill was very on top of everything!!!! Best venue ever!
Jessica Y., a year ago
Quick responder
Bourne Mansion 

5.0

Oakdale, NY
  • Up to 300 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor

This historic Vanderbilt mansion is a turn-of-the-century work of art that offers a traditional and classic setting for the grandest black tie affairs. From lawn events hosting over 1,000 guests, to weddings and corporate affairs hosting 300 guests, Bourne Mansion personifies luxury and grandeur and the elaborate celebrations of yesteryear. Bourne Mansion is conveniently located, only 90 minutes from New York City, yet worlds away.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Offers full-service amenities
  • Classic elegance
  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you are drawn to more unconventional venues
  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Best for events with big guest lists
Awarded Best of Zola
We got married 1/5/25 but had been working with Miriam for probably a year and a half before our big day. She was always so personable with us a treated us like family. Words cannot describe the love and care we felt from Jake, our maître D and Samantha, our bridal attendant, on our wedding day. We were cared for tediously and effortlessly. We felt like at ease, happy and totally relaxed. I needed Samantha and didn’t even know it, I am forever indebted to her - she could not have been more attentive and wonderful. Comforting me, assuring me, getting me where I need to be and when. So friendly, kind and amazing. Thank god for Jake. He is so special and we’re so lucky we got him as our maître D. He deems himself as a “yes man” and he is not lying. Anything you could have ever wanted from him, he’d deliver. We wanted for nothing, had wonderful direction from him all night and he took care of EVERYTHING!  The night was flawless, amazing, perfect and all we could have ever hoped for. The staff at Bourne is unmatched, we made the right choice with this venue. Guests will be in awe of the venue and talk about the food for years to come. I wish I could do it all again. Thank you Bourne mansion & staff for the best night of our lives! I don’t have all my pics back yet!
Sara C., 3 days ago
Quick responder
Mansion at Timber Point 

5.0

Great River, NY
  • Up to 250 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor

Nestled on the bank of the Great South Bay with panoramic views of Fire Island, the Mansion at Timber Point is a beautiful and inviting setting for the wedding ceremony of your dreams. The bride’s big day will commence in the lovely bridal suite, where the bridal party is welcome to prepare for the big moment. A beautiful white wedding gazebo is perched at the edge of the stone patio overlooking the rolling greens of the golf course, which give way to a magnificent bay view, for a romantic exchange of vows. Inside of this historic mansion you’ll find classic country décor with modern lighting and sound systems, ensuring a full night of dancing. Every detail will fall perfectly into place with the help of the experienced staff while the bride and groom enjoy their fairytale evening.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Blends luxury with trendiness
  • Exudes old-world charm
  • Provides lighting and sound

Venue considerations

  • No on-premises lodging options
  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
  • Not wheelchair accessible
Everything was great! The staff was amazing and so easy to work with at every point in the process. No one was ever pushy or anything like that. Our maitre d Matt was an absolute gem and my bridal attendant Emma was an absolute angel. Loved the option to get married inside or out. We wanted outside but it was windy and cold so we got married inside in front of the beautiful fire place. We couldn’t have asked for anything better. ️
Erin R., 9 months ago
TrendlineTrending
The Estate 
New Haven, CT
  • Up to 200 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $4,500

NOTE: For additional information about The Estate, please email us directly via our website. The Estate is a countryside wedding venue located in New Haven, Connecticut. Nestled near the flowing waters of the coastline, this historic property is located on 12 acres and provides a refined setting for couples wanting to celebrate their special day in style. To begin your day on the right note, you can use the wedding suites for pre-ceremony preparations. Receptions are held outside in our elegant sailcloth tent while the mansion is a wonderful choice for hosting the cocktail reception. For your big day, The Estate is exclusively yours, giving you and your loved ones the time to create unforgettable memories together. When selecting The Estate as your wedding venue, the in-house event coordinator will work with you to ensure that your dream celebrations become a reality. Contact us today to learn more!

Why you'll love this venue

  • Both indoor and outdoor options
  • Provides lighting and sound
  • Surrounded by beautiful vineyards

Venue considerations

  • Does not provide event staff
  • Does not have a dance floor
  • No on-site guest accommodations
Quick responder
Heavitree of Griswold Bed and Breakfast 
Griswold, CT
  • Up to 100 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $2,500

Our ancestors settled here in 1635 from Heavitree, England, hence the name. We are one of the few longest-living farms to continue in the founder’s name “Geer.” The Heavitree is an original 18th-century building saved and moved to its current location, a 140+ acre farm started by our ancestors in 1700. The original structure was a tavern in Rhode Island, saved from destruction by Charlotte Geer to complement her family’s historic farmland. With twelve rooms, including four sleeping chambers, modern amenities, and unique 18th-century rooms, the 4,780 sq. ft. farmhouse offers a historic experience. Enjoy the vast lawns, fields, gardens, and beautiful private vistas.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Exudes old-world charm
  • Full catering menu to choose from
  • Caters to out-of-town guests

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you're looking for a sleek and contemporary space
  • Couple must handle cleanup and setup
  • No built-in audiovisual options

Location flexible? Discover venues near Sag Harbor, NY

About wedding venues in Sag Harbor, NY

How much do wedding venues typically cost in Sag Harbor, NY?

The cost of a wedding venue varies widely by location, number of guests, and many other details of the wedding package. Sag Harbor, NY offers a range of options that can fit most budgets. Raw venue space rentals (which only include the space itself) start at $1,500 and average $9,000. All-inclusive packages start at $120 and average $8,500.

What types of venues can I find in Sag Harbor, NY?

Sag Harbor offers a wide range of venues, including Ballroom, Beach and waterfront and Hotel and resort.

What are some of the best wedding and reception venues available in Sag Harbor, NY?

Some of the most popular venues in this area include The Vineyards at Aquebogue, Bourne Mansion and Stonebridge Country Club. But just like finding "the one," finding the perfect wedding venue takes time and a little bit of magic. Start by envisioning your dream wedding - the ambiance, style, and location. Then, explore our extensive collection of carefully curated wedding venues. Our marketplace provides detailed information, stunning photos, and real couples' reviews to help you make an informed decision. Trust your instincts, and when you find that venue that gives you butterflies, you'll know it's the one.

What questions should I ask when booking a venue in Sag Harbor, NY?

It all depends on what you're looking for, but you may want to consider things like whether the venue has an on-site bridal suite (51% in Sag Harbor do) or whether the venue provides an event coordinator (41% in Sag Harbor do!).

Additionally, some venues work with certain caterers and require a minimum food and beverage spend in addition to the space rentals. Others might have a recommended list of preferred caterers that they'd like you to work with.

Can the venues in Sag Harbor, NY accommodate both small and large weddings?

Of course! Small wedding venues in Sag Harbor, NY can host intimate parties while large venues can accommodate up to 1000. The average venue in Sag Harbor can seat 150 guests.

What amenities do the reception venues in Sag Harbor, NY offer?

The venues in Sag Harbor, NY are known for the exceptional suite of services and amenities offered to couples and their wedding parties. The most common services provided are Wheelchair accessible, Bar services and Service staff. Some venues even offer Transportation!

What types of wedding venues are in Sag Harbor, NY?

What other Sag Harbor vendors will I need?

What other wedding venues are nearby?

What other wedding services are nearby?