The Best Historic Estate & Mansion Wedding Venues in Old Tappan, NJ

The Best Historic Estate & Mansion Wedding Venues in Old Tappan, NJ

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10 Wedding Venues in Old Tappan, NJ

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Sylvan Ridge Farm 

5.0

  • Up to 170 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $10,500

A historic property with timeless beauty, Sylvan Ridge Farm is nestled into a wooded mountainside overlooking the Delaware River Valley. Our mid-19th century farmhouse, cottage, and event barn have been revitalized with design insights from renowned architect Peter Bohlin and the meticulous skill of Pennsylvania Amish craftsmen to create a truly unique gathering place. Guests enjoy total solitude on the secluded 193 acres, yet the farm is only 10 minutes away from Interstate 84, historic Milford, PA, and Port Jervis, NY, with easy access from New York City via train, bus, or car. We specialize in long-format weddings, where one couple has exclusive venue access for a full weekend and can have their rehearsal dinner, brunch, or other side events at no additional charge. Overnight lodging for up to 16 guests and professional month-of coordination are included in every package!

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We fell in love with this venue the moment we drove up the road. My husband and I grew up in NJ, live in Brooklyn, and were looking for a venue that felt like a nature retreat while still being accessible for our friends and family. Milford is a great town just down the road and the hotels are so close too. Linnea and Alec were so communicative and helpful with the endless lists of questions we sent them. We cannot thank them enough for setting the stage for the weekend - and I'm just so impressed with how seamless and easy it felt to use their venue. We were struck just by the beauty of the whole property. It's absolutely marvelous! We were surrounded by charming little bunnies and butterflies the whole weekend. We took advantage of the place for the whole weekend - a Friday night pizza truck party, multiple pool and hot tub hangouts, and a Sunday bagel brunch in the barn. Everybody was raving about the barn, farmhouse, and cottage. The sunset during the reception created a great atmosphere for our guests to congregate and enjoy the lawn. We felt right at home and it made our wedding so incredibly special.
Rebecca S., 4 months ago
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Crossed Keys Estate 

5.0

Andover, NJ
  • Up to 275 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $31,000

Crossed Keys Estate is a luxury wedding venue situated one hour outside of New York City in Andover, NJ. This lush property is nestled on 30+ acres of gardens, meadows, and old buildings that pay homage to its storied past. Brand new to the Estate is the Conservatory, a beautiful glass-enclosed building, that hosts the most magical cocktail hour! Crossed Keys Estate hosts weddings for 100 guests or more with a maximum of 275.

This was our first time at Crossed Keys Estate, and from the moment we did our research, we knew we were in for something special. The estate’s 30 acres of history, with stunning gardens, towering 200-year-old trees, and a charming farmhouse, provide the perfect mix of modern and rustic elegance. One of our favorite aspects? The venue hosts just one wedding a day, so all the attention and resources are devoted to the couple—a huge plus for creating a seamless experience. From the beginning, Erika and Jeremy were so laid-back and excited to enjoy their day. The preparation spaces were perfect—the girls had a beautiful rustic farmhouse, while the guys had a spacious house just down the gravel road, complete with a golf green for a little fun before the festivities. We love incorporating multiple, and Crossed Keys Estate offered the perfect backdrop for each one. From the emotional bridesmaids' reveal to the heartwarming first look between Erika and her dad (we could feel the intensity of the moment from the sidelines), and finally, the groom's first look on the picturesque grounds—it was magical. The estate’s swing under the giant tree and the intimate reflection pond were standout spots for capturing stunning couple photos, tucked away from the crowd. The reception space was equally amazing. The modern hall, with floor-to-ceiling windows, allowed gorgeous natural light to flood the room, making for a perfect backdrop for the celebration and the sweetheart table. Working with Katrina, the Senior Venue Coordinator, was a breeze. Every request the couple had was thoroughly listened to, and the venue made sure the day flowed effortlessly for everyone involved. Everything was timed perfectly, the florals (created by the venue!) were stunning, and the food was exquisite. Every detail was executed flawlessly, ensuring the couple and their guests could enjoy the day without a single hiccup. Now that we’ve experienced Crossed Keys Estate firsthand, we can’t wait to return! Our creativity was sparked by the newness of the venue, but we’re also excited to bring that knowledge back for future weddings. Erika and Jeremy’s wedding was a perfect day, and we look forward to more love stories at this beautiful estate.
Olya B., 2 months ago
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Fox & Bear Lodge 

5.0

Vernon, NJ
  • Up to 100 guests
  • Select services
  • Outdoor
  • Starts at $10,500

The Fox & Bear Lodge would be honored to host your next special event! At the Fox & Bear Lodge, your hosts Brant and Dearrick strive to create for their guests an experience that is truly unique. Brunches, private parties celebrating special occasions, weddings, and/or pre or post-wedding gatherings are elevated with sophisticated touches your hosts can provide. Stunning floral arrangements, beautifully displayed foods both savory and sweet, signature cocktails, or a mixed fruits mimosa bar: these are just a few of the elements that your guests would encounter at an event hosted at The Fox & Bear Lodge. If you are looking to hold a one-of-a-kind gathering that your family and friends are sure to remember, consider holding it at our Lodge. We look forward to serving you.

B&B Tent and Party Rentals has had the pleasure of doing business recently with Brant & Dearrick at their gorgeous establishment. With such a beautiful lodge, they can make all of your dreams come true for your special day! While our company has provided tents, ambiance lighting and flowing drapes, Brant and Dearrick really know how to take the ordinary and make it extraordinary! From start to finish their communication is spectacular and they always give 110%. I would absolutely recommend them to anyone looking for that perfect balance of rustic and elegant.
B & B., 2 months ago
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The Estate at Florentine Gardens 

5.0

River Vale, NJ
  • Up to 350 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor
  • Starts at $40,000

Established for over three decades, Florentine Gardens has never stopped improving to keep up with the times, the trends and ever-evolving needs of our customers and our guests. Our chic, meticulously cared for estate recently underwent extensive additions and renovations with the goal to allow our customers more flexibility in the wedding experience and the ability to really maximize the customization factor and up the “wow” factor. You’ll find attention to detail in everything we do, from the intricate design of our gardens to how we care for our sparkling clean facility, and bring in special touches that make you and your guests feel pampered on this perfect day.

From the moment we arrived at Florentine Gardens, we were welcomed in an atmosphere of warmth and elegance that truly set the tone for our special occasion. The entire experience was nothing short of breathtaking, thanks to the exceptional team dedicated to making our day memorable. Samantha, one of the event coordinators, greeted us with genuine enthusiasm, making us feel immediately welcomed and at home. Her attention to detail and personal touch ensured that every aspect of our event was tailored to our preferences—her kindness and professionalism were refreshing and made all the difference. Sal, the sound and lighting expert, took our event to the next level. He was attentive to our needs, ensuring the ambiance was just right. The music filled the space beautifully, and the lighting created an enchanting atmosphere that impressed all our guests. It was clear that Sal is a true professional, and his work certainly did not go unnoticed. Now, let's talk about the food! Every bite was a delight—each dish was prepared with care, showcasing the culinary expertise of the Florentine Gardens team. Our guests were raving about the menu choices, and we felt proud to serve such top-of-the-line offerings at our celebration. The quality and presentation of the food exceeded our expectations, making dining an unforgettable part of the experience. Overall, the service at Florentine Gardens is simply exceptional. Every member of the team went above and beyond to ensure that everything flowed smoothly throughout the event. We left feeling more than satisfied; we were truly in awe of how well everything came together. Florentine Gardens is not just a venue; it’s a magical space where memories are made and cherished. We cannot recommend it highly enough for anyone looking to host a remarkable event. Thank you, Florentine Gardens, for giving us a day we will remember for the rest of our lives!
Laura H., a month ago
The Old '76 House 

5.0

Tappan, NY
  • Up to 150 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor
  • Starts at $3,000

The 76 House is America’s oldest tavern. Built with the founding of Tappan (1686) and expanded in 1755 to accommodate the town’s need to provide hospitality to stagecoach travelers, it is here that the Dutch town fathers, a group naturally predisposed to separate themselves from England, gathered to draft and sign The Resolutions of Orangetown on July 4, 1774. This document stands as one of America’s first declarations of independence and is often given as the reason we celebrate July 4. The ‘76 accommodates up to 150 guests in 3 distinctly styled dining rooms, each one graced with a glowing fireplace. Whether you’re planning a corporate luncheon for two dozen guests, a family celebration for fifty or a glamorous wedding, personal assistance from our experienced events staff ensures a flawlessly executed occasion to be remembered for years to come. Small one room wedding beginning at $3,000 Buy out weddings begin at $20,000 Price varies with your custom package.

Our vision for our wedding was for all our favorite people having a night out at a bar and the 76 house more than delivered! We loved the historical aspect of the restaurant and they even had little pamphlets our guests could take that shared the history of the venue. This is a bit of an untraditional wedding venue (as it is a restaurant) but that didn’t stop anyone from dancing and having a great time. From the moment we started working with Elisa (our “wedding planner” aka the woman who runs the show) she was detail oriented while willing to work with us throughout the whole process. Whether it was from payment, table arrangements, food, getting the vendors set up, etc. anything we needed, she helped. The food tasting she set up for us was amazing allowing us to try various options for the dinner. We are both laid back people so we let the chef go with any appetizers he wanted. You are able to request anything you want and they will likely be able to do it for you. The chef did not disappoint, ALL of the apps were incredible. We had one guest mention he ate 20 meatballs they were so good. There was chicken, steak skewers, lamb chops, meatballs, hummus/veggie spread (that wasn’t even all that was served). We had eaten at the restaurant a few times so we knew the food was good. However, having to serve 120 people and still make it delicious is tough but they did it well (we went with the chateaubriand, amish chicken, mahi mahi, and vegetable risotto). We requested no pork or nuts for the whole wedding. We had a wedding cake through a bakery they recommended and they also put plates of small desserts out on the tables. Aside from the food, the service was amazing. All the waiters and waitresses were attentive and extremely professional. For us, we constantly had our champagne filled and asked whether we needed something. They were on top of water refills, drink requests, clean up, etc. We really appreciated the service given to us and our guests. We heard so many times during cocktail hour that every time someone turned around they had a food option. While we did not have to go up to the bar, our guests said the bartenders were awesome, quick, and generous! Elisa worked great with our other vendors as well, making sure they had everything they needed and that things were kept on schedule (food, dances, cake, etc). We had a completely stress free evening which allowed us to have the time of our lives. She ensured that our tables were set with the centerpieces, the florals were set up, and she created a menu for us (which is great to have something taken off our plate). Elisa also, set up our various signs and ensured everything was where we had discussed. We were able to drop everything off ahead of time and not have anything to worry about the day of. Our biggest concern going to this venue was the fact that the front room was partially separated from the rest of the restaurant. We decided to sit people there who we knew would be a bit rowdier and on the dance floor so it wasn’t an issue for us at all. It did get pretty toasty in there but we were dancing the whole time and it’s an older building. The air tried its best and while sitting for dinner it was more than comfortable! We are a crazy group so I’m not surprised we were sweating lol. This was the best day and a HUGE part of that is thanks to Elisa and her whole team at the 76 house. Food, service, people are TOP NOTCH. We could go on and on but ran out of space :)
Jenna & A., 4 months ago
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The Rockleigh 

4.8

Rockleigh, NJ
  • Up to 800 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $30,000

It's not just the day of your wedding, it's the wedding experience. From the moment you enter the Rockleigh, you will know this is where you want to spend one of the most important days of your life. *Superior Customer Service *Magnificent Gardens for Photo Opportunities *Designated Outdoor and Indoor Ceremony Space *Elegant Lobby with Marble Staircase *Exquisite Dressing Suites *Indoor and Outdoor Cocktail Areas *Ballroom With Crystal Chandeliers and Spacious Dance Floor *Unsurpassed Culinary Excellence. The Rockleigh’s grandeur and gardens provide the perfect setting for hosting both Indian and Glatt Kosher weddings. Our outstanding reputation and knowledge of Indian and Glatt Kosher customs, partnered with the cuisine of your chosen caterer, ensure an extraordinary experience for you, your family and friends.

I can’t say it enough that The Rockleigh should be at the top of everyone’s venue list. They were our 2nd of 3rd venues we were touring and we never went to our 3rd venue tour. My words simply can’t portray how magical a wedding at The Rockleigh will feel. As soon as you walk in we were hit with a “wow” feeling. The venue is simply beautiful and left us and all our guests in awe. On top of a classy and beautiful venue, the service the staff provided is truly unforgettable. They will be at your side the entire day making sure you don’t have to lift a finger and ensure that your day goes as exactly as planned (and might I say better than you planned it to go). The food was also the most flavorful dishes I have ever had the privilege of enjoying. I hope this review helps other couples decide that The Rockleigh should be where they have their wedding. I could not have asked for a more perfect day and that was simply thanks to the amazing staff and service The Rockleigh provides. Please trust me when I say you will not ever be disappointed while in the care of the incredible people over at The Rockleigh.
Brandon M., a month ago
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Felina 

5.0

Ridgewood, NJ
  • Up to 200 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor

Dramatic, Art Deco Located in the heart of the historical Village of Ridgewood, NJ. Amenities include critically acclaimed culinary programming, a stunning bridal suite, our signature hospitality and much more… Let us make your memories of a lifetime! The Treasury at Felina is a neoclassical bank space that features marble columns, soaring windows, towering ceilings, and a wraparound mezzanine for cocktail hour. Elements of brass, marble, the iconic Bank Vault Door and the floating chandelier sculpture combine to impress and delight the scenes, promising celebrations never to be forgotten.

Finding the right words to express our overwhelming excitement with choosing Felina as our wedding venue feels nearly impossible. Hosting approximately 150 guests this past weekend, our event unfolded flawlessly. The staff's attentiveness ensured that every detail was meticulously executed, from a well-managed bar ensuring drinks flowed continuously to the unceasing rave reviews about the delicious and plentiful food. Throughout the night, both we and our guests felt exceptionally cared for - our guests loved the space and found it to be exceptionally photogenic. We received many compliments on how beautiful the venue was. Our pre-wedding rehearsal dinner at Felina's restaurant was equally exceptional, making sure our family and friends received excellent service from beginning to end. Carissa, undoubtedly the cornerstone of our experience, handled our myriad inquiries leading up to the event, and supported our unique requests with unparalleled grace and efficiency. She truly epitomized the excellence of Felina's team. Overall, we could not ask for a better experience than what the staff at Felina delivered. The first-rate service gave us confidence that we would be well taken care of for our big day - and they delivered. Don't hesitate to choose Felina, you won't be disappointed.
Toni A., 8 months ago
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Tappan Hill Mansion 

5.0

Tarrytown, NY
  • Up to 250 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $20,000

Tappan Hill Mansion is located on the former estate of Mark Twain in the scenic Hudson Valley. Just 45 minutes from midtown Manhattan, the Mansion is easily accessible from the entire tri-state area. Nestled on a hilltop overlooking the Hudson, this stunning stone structure features luxurious rooms and garden terraces ideal for weddings, meetings, gala fundraisers, product launches or any occasion you can imagine. Tappan Hill is perfect for hosting a wide range of events from intimate gatherings to mansion-wide celebrations. With views of a stunning, newly renovated garden, The Hudson Room is perfect for small weddings, rehearsal dinners, anniversaries and meetings, while the Pavilion Room hosts larger gatherings. Both rooms have expansive glass, stunning views and all the requisite amenities. Whatever the occasion, this historic setting is the perfect backdrop for the most special events.

My husband and I got married at this venue this past November. Every single day since the wedding, we’ve gotten compliments on how incredible the venue the staff, the food and everything about Abigail Kirsch at Tappan Hill was. For us working with the team specifically John was such an absolute pleasure throughout the process and the day of they made everything as easy and enjoyable for us as possible, I can’t say enough good things about this venue except that I wish I could have another wedding there!
Danielle D., 5 days ago
Wave Hill 

5.0

Bronx, NY
  • Up to 180 guests
  • Raw space
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $50,000

With intimate gardens and spectacular views of the Hudson River and New Jersey Palisades, Wave Hill offers the most romantic setting in New York City for your unforgettable wedding. Your ceremony takes place at the Pergola on the Great Lawn, with your cocktail hour there— or on either the Lower Lawn or the Kate French Terrace adjacent to historic Wave Hill House. Dinner is held in Armor Hall. Capacity there is capped at 130 guests, including a small band and dance floor in the Hall. If you choose to locate the dance floor nearby in the adjacent Mark Twain Room, then capacity increases to a limit of 180 guests. Weddings at Wave Hill take place only in the evening, with guests arriving after the gardens have closed to the general public. Only one evening event is booked per date to ensure your event is private and exclusive. All events work with our exclusive caterer Great Performances to create a personalized, quality experience for you and your guests.

As a planner, I'm always grateful to work with rockstar vendors. The Wave Hill experience is fantastic. From the stunning views to the on-top-of-it staff, it's a dream any chance our event coordinators get to work with Wave Hill.
Amy Shack Egan, 5 years ago

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How much do wedding venues typically cost in Old Tappan, NJ?

The cost of a wedding venue varies widely by location, number of guests, and many other details of the wedding package. Old Tappan, NJ offers a range of options that can fit most budgets. Raw venue space rentals (which only include the space itself) start at $100 and average $800. All-inclusive packages start at $130 and average $11,500.

What types of venues can I find in Old Tappan, NJ?

Old Tappan offers a wide range of venues, including Ballroom, Hotel and resort and Historic estate.

What are some of the best wedding and reception venues available in Old Tappan, NJ?

Some of the most popular venues in this area include SkyView Golf Club, Perona Farms and The Madison Hotel. But just like finding "the one," finding the perfect wedding venue takes time and a little bit of magic. Start by envisioning your dream wedding - the ambiance, style, and location. Then, explore our extensive collection of carefully curated wedding venues. Our marketplace provides detailed information, stunning photos, and real couples' reviews to help you make an informed decision. Trust your instincts, and when you find that venue that gives you butterflies, you'll know it's the one.

What questions should I ask when booking a venue in Old Tappan, NJ?

It all depends on what you're looking for, but you may want to consider things like whether the venue has an on-site bridal suite (45% in Old Tappan do) or whether the venue provides an event coordinator (48% in Old Tappan do!).

Additionally, some venues work with certain caterers and require a minimum food and beverage spend in addition to the space rentals. Others might have a recommended list of preferred caterers that they'd like you to work with.

Can the venues in Old Tappan, NJ accommodate both small and large weddings?

Of course! Small wedding venues in Old Tappan, NJ can host intimate parties while large venues can accommodate up to 1200. The average venue in Old Tappan can seat 120 guests.

What amenities do the reception venues in Old Tappan, NJ offer?

The venues in Old Tappan, NJ are known for the exceptional suite of services and amenities offered to couples and their wedding parties. The most common services provided are Wi-Fi, Service staff and Event staff. Some venues even offer Transportation!

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