Find a taste of Italy in the Napa Valley at Backstage Winery. We're a short drive from downtown Napa, but you'll feel like you're a world away when you arrive at our Italian-style estate, which includes 45 acres of vineyards, gorgeous mountain views and architecture reminiscent of a Tuscan villa. Enjoy our premium, small-batch wines inside our modern, stylish tasting room, where we have table, lounge and bar seating. Or sit beside the fountain in our cobblestone courtyard and take in the Old World feel of the winery. *We are a great addition to your wedding weekend* These are events we can host! Getting Engaged, Engagement Party, Rehearsals & Parties, After Party, Bachelor Party, Bachelorette Party, Bridal Luncheon, Bridal Shower, Rehearsal Dinner, Welcome Party, Day After Brunch

Located in St Helena and voted Top 5 winery wedding venues in the world, V. Sattui Winery's classic elegance provides an idyllic backdrop for your lavish wine country nuptials. With a history dating back to 1885, V. Sattui is one of the few wineries in the area able to host wedding ceremonies, which can be held either in the romantic courtyard or on the majestic tower lawn. From the gorgeous vineyard and mountain views, to the elegant cocktail party terraces, through to the stunning barrel cellar receptions, V. Sattui is sure to make your wine country wedding dreams come true. To learn more please contact us directly through our website!

At The Heritage House we can ensure that you have a memorable lifetime experience. A wedding with close family and friends or just an intimate commitment ceremony we are happy to accommodate anywhere from just the couple or up to 38 guests comfortably.

On the southern edge of Napa Valley, the banks of the Napa River contour around the historic Stanly Ranch, where pristine vineyards blanket gently rolling hills that rise up to meet the wide-open California sky. Here, an extraordinary new luxury resort is taking shape. Stanly Ranch, a new destination in the heart of wine country, celebrates the romance of connecting with family and friends in a setting that’s steeped in winery estate tradition, inspired by the beauty of the land, and infused with a fresh, convivial spirit.

Abbot’s Passage is a winery and mercantile located in the heart of Glen Ellen. We’re inspired by the paths less traveled. We celebrate processes and products that embrace the exceptional. Whether you’re new to our valley or a seasoned explorer, here’s to something unexpected, but just what you were looking for. Nestled between rows of 80-year old vines and surrounded by the storied hills of Sonoma, finding Abbot’s Passage means you are both lost and found. Our eclectic collection of Rhône-style wines inspires a winery and curated mercantile experience that challenges convention. Whether coming to taste, shop, play or celebrate, our collective invites friends and family to come often and stay awhile.

As the first winery production facilitybuilt after the repeal of prohibition,Merryvale occupies a unique place in thehistory of Napa Valley and California wine history. The iconic building that houses Merryvale Vineyards has long been established as a premier winemaking facility and has provided a winemaking home for such luminaries as Robert and Peter Mondavi, the Christian Brothers, and H. William Harlan. Merryvale's historic cask room is lined with 2,000-gallon oak barrels dating back to 1933. The room glows with candelabras, votives, and sparkling glassware surrounded by family and friends.

Gundlach Bundschu is a family-owned winery and organically farmed vineyard in the heart of Sonoma. Six generations of the Bundschu family and friends have celebrated life on Rhinefarm with creativity and high spirits. Today, the historic beauty of our 320-acre property allows for endless possibilities when planning your event.

Nestled in the hills surrounding quaint St. Helena, CA, the Culinary Institute of America at Greystone is a fairy tale setting for your wedding. The historic castle, built in 1889 from locally quarried stone, provides a gorgeous backdrop for your celebration as it overlooks the vineyards of the extraordinary Napa wine region. Greystone's unique interior and exterior spaces, including the scenic Herb Terrace and our Historic Barrel Room, offer intimate and romantic settings for rehearsal dinners, receptions and wedding ceremonies, welcome parties and farewell brunches. The expert team at the CIA will work with you to ensure that every element of your big day is carefully considered and expertly executed. Our dedicated event staff will be on hand to ensure that every detail exceeds your expectations so you can relax and focus on making unforgettable memories. For your convenience, both of CIA’s wheelchair-accessible venues offer onsite parking and valet services.

Welcome. Landmark Vineyards is an ultra-premium winery nestled in the heart of Sonoma Valley in Kenwood CA. An unforgettable setting makes for an unforgettable event! Walk down the aisle with stunning views of vineyards and exchange vows in the heart of wine country. Our welcoming courtyard, lush gardens, and stunning views of the Mayacamas Mountains make the perfect backdrop for your special occasion. Work with our experienced Events Manager to create lasting memories at your wedding, corporate dinner, or private party.

We'd love to host your group for a private event and can accommodate a range of gatherings that include rehearsal dinners, corporate off-sites, birthday parties, and more. Our team can work with you to craft the perfect day on the farm. Group activities include pickleball, harvesting flowers, bouquet-making workshops, farm dinners, and more.

Meritage Resort and Spa offers a blend of natural beauty and warm, wine country hospitality for your wedding. From the bridal shower and bachelorette party to the rehearsal dinner and farewell brunch, our Napa Valley vineyard wedding venues deliver unmatched ambiance for all your wedding events, including group activities and bridal party spa services.

Nestled in the Carneros Region of Sonoma, California, Cline Family Cellars has rustic elegance all around. Covering 350 acres, Cline Family Cellars boasts both intimate and spacious event venues for wedding celebrations. The outdoor Adobe Mission patio is ideal for small gatherings such as rehearsal dinners and ceremonies. With a capacity for up to 600 guests, the Great Lawn offers an outdoor alternative for more extravagant celebrations, framed by willow trees and tranquil ponds.

Jacuzzi Family Vineyards, a beautiful vineyard estate, is the ideal setting for the most romantic day of your life. Our wedding package includes three stunning venues ready to be styled to perfection for your wedding day.

Running Rabbit Ranch and Vineyard is the perfect setting for an exclusive wine country wedding. Located in Sonoma County, at the entrance to the Valley of the Moon, we offer several picturesque locations with sweeping views. This is an idyllic location for you to host private parties in a gated wine country garden estate with a beautifully landscaped vineyard and lavender rose gardens. A Sonoma County wedding would not be complete without vineyards views and gardens. The views extend out across Santa Rosa to the western mountain ranges that frame the Pacific Ocean and down the Sonoma valley floor towards Kenwood. Our working vineyard provides grapes for local wineries.

Welcome to Vezér Family Vineyard & Blue Victorian Winery are Suisun Valley Wineries, which are owned by Frank and Liz Vezér. "The Petite Sirah Capital of the World" The Vezér Family presents a wine tasting experience right here in Solano County's very own Suisun Valley. Come and taste Vezér's award winning wines while seeing all the natural beauty Suisun Valley has to offer. In addition we offer our property for Wedding celebrations, Receptions, Holiday gatherings, Charity Events, Special Dinners, etc

The Suisun Valley Inn is an intimate retreat at the historic 55-acre Monroe Ranch in the heart of Suisun Valley, just east of Napa. Accommodating sixteen guests in eight suites, the inn is the ideal location to stay while enjoying the area wineries, farms and attractions. If you are looking for a tucked away setting for a wedding party, a company retreat or just a getaway to a quaint setting, the Suisun Valley Inn is a unique choice. For the 2025 wedding season we will offer indoor weddings/receptions in our new 7500 sq ft barn.

Flying Cloud is a 33 acre venue just 5 minutes from 101. We have the pastoral, vineyard views and candle lit interiors of a winery but the exclusiveness and personal service of a private estate. The services of owner, Jeannette Bell, as your coordinator are included in your site fee. With 30 years of experience hosting and managing weddings, she will make sure your wedding fulfills your vision. Flying Cloud can put together a complete package tailored to each couple using our preferred vendors, or you are welcome to use your own. With indoor and outdoor facilities, Flying Cloud can host incredibly beautiful weddings year round.

The Gables Wine Country Inn is a elegant Gothic Victorian 8 room estate, circa 1877, featuring 12-foot ceilings, luxurious beds fitted with Comphy® sheets and private bathrooms with clawfoot tubs in each room. It is situated on 3-1/2 acres in the very center of famed Sonoma County Wine Country. The property includes a circa1850a redwood barn, vineyards, lavender garden and redwood trees.

Welcome. Griffo Distillery was founded in Petaluma, California, to create premium, small-batch spirits that showcase the beauty and bounty of Sonoma County. We're a family-run operation with an emphasis on high quality, California-grown ingredients and meticulous craftsmanship. Whether you're planning a gathering of friends, wedding meet and greet, a company party, birthday bash or a corporate offsite shindig, our 3,500 square-foot space is the perfect place to raise a glass with groups, large or small. We offer a flexible event space, guided spirit tasting, specialty and custom cocktails, and behind-the-scenes tours of our grain-to-glass production. Join us for your next event!

Located in an urban area near the heart of Santa Rosa is a boutique Italian winery filled with generations of passion and love. Often called an urban "hidden gem" by our guests, our full-production winery offers a charming venue with three separate areas and an array of inclusive amenities. We specialize in wedding celebrations and cherish the magic created by couples who begin their "forever" inside our doors. We offer full catering through our neighboring sister restaurant Cibo Rustico with a menu featuring wood-fired pizzas, pasta, salads, desserts, and specialty dishes. Our max capacity is 120 guests, however, groups of about 50 guests work best in our space. An average price for an all-inclusive wedding with food, service, wine/beer, and all available extras you may want to add on is about $7000. From the careful planning to the formal sendoff, your wedding will be a unique experience, and we are committed to ensuring the celebration of your union is truly unforgettable.

A family business fueled by love of wine, art and community.    Located in the heart of Sonoma County, Paradise Ridge offers a naturally romantic setting. The 155-acre estate has sweeping views of vineyards and the Russian River Valley. The iconic two-story LOVE sculpture, which illuminates in the evening, adds to the enchanting wine country setting.

Revel in the joy of celebration. Rolling hills, rustic barns, and glistening ponds set the stage for a lifetime appreciation of wonders large and small. Located just 2.5 miles from Downtown Petaluma, Rusty Hinges Ranch provides the unique experience of pastoral serenity with quick access to modern comforts. Set on over 100 acres in beautiful Sonoma County, the ranch is home to several rustic barns fit to provide the perfect escape.

Experience Sonoma’s first luxury resort on a working vineyard. Embraced by a 92-acre estate, Vintners Resort is an intimate hideaway set amidst redwood trees, colorful gardens, and fountain courtyards. Connect to the land at John Ash & Co., one of Sonoma’s first farm-to-table restaurants, overlooking a vineyard. Relax in our spa, take a dip in the outdoor heated plunge pool, or play a game of bocce ball. Just 60 miles north of San Francisco, Vintners Resort is the gateway to the Russian River Valley and all of Sonoma County’s famed wineries and culinary destinations. Your Vintners escape comes to life with heartfelt service from our long-tenured team, dedicated to creating treasured moments in every stay.

Our Sonoma Plaza wine shop is a special place. Housed in the 1891 Pinelli Building on Sonoma Plaza, we have created a little oasis for wine lovers. Wine was first sold in this building in 1891. It is the perfect cozy spot to host your events! Wine. Dine. Taste.

Glass Harp Garden, nestled in the picturesque town of Novato in Marin County, offers a serene and enchanting setting for intimate gatherings and special events. This private, hidden gem boasts a beautifully landscaped garden with lush greenery, majestic oak trees, and flowering plants, creating a romantic and tranquil ambiance for your celebration. Ideal for those seeking a private and unique venue, Glass Harp Garden provides a perfect backdrop for creating unforgettable memories.

Located in the heart of Sonoma County’s iconic Russian River Valley, Pellegrini Winery is rich with history dating back to the early 1900’s. After the appeal of prohibition, the Pellegrini’s began making wine under the family name and were issued Winegrower License No.4 in the state of California. In 1975, the first Chardonnay and Pinot Noir vines were planted, establishing the Pellegrini family as a pioneering Pinot Noir producer in the now famed Russian River Valley. Today, it is a thriving, sustainable, family-owned, boutique winery led by fourth-generation vintner, Alexia Pellegrini. Our highly acclaimed estate vineyards, inspire us to produce sparkling, still, and dessert wines. Our Tuscan-style winery offers generous indoor, outdoor, and covered spaces to accommodate almost any event concept: ~His and Hers private bridal party suites~ ~Welcome Toast in our Heritage Olive Grove~ ~Wedding Ceremony Garden~ ~Dine & Dance Among the Vineyards~

Discover the perfect venue for your next event at our picturesque marina waterfront. With its breathtaking views and serene ambiance, our marina offers an idyllic setting for any occasion. Whether you're planning a wedding, corporate gathering, or private celebration, our waterfront location provides a unique backdrop that will leave a lasting impression on your guests. From intimate gatherings to large-scale events, our experienced team is dedicated to ensuring every detail is meticulously arranged, allowing you to focus on creating unforgettable memories. Embrace the beauty of the waterfront and host your event with us for an unparalleled experience that will exceed all expectations.

Pacheco Ranch's picturesque estate is the perfect venue to celebrate any special event in your life! From intimate weddings to corporate events or fundraisers, PRW has several areas within the ranch to accomodate any hosting situation. To find out more information regarding hosting your own event at Pacheco Ranch Winery, please contact us!

Welcome. Vine Hill House is a beautiful wine country estate situated amid world-class Pinot Noir and Chardonnay vineyards and heirloom organic apple orchards that have been owned and operated by the O’Connell family since the 1930’s. It is located on the O’Connell Vineyards and Apple Orchard Estate in the Russian River Valley wine region of beautiful Sonoma County. To the east, the scenic views look over hundreds of acres of vineyards and stretch across the Santa Rosa Valley to Mount St. Helena and the Coastal Mountain Range in the north to the San Francisco Bay Area in the south. To the west, the views look out across the vineyards and apple orchards to Green Valley and the Russian River Valley. Vine Hill House estate gardens include a grove with Douglas firs, redwoods, and oaks in a natural setting, spacious lawns and lovely flower gardens, and many other delightful extras. This beautiful private estate provides a stunning and romantic atmosphere for any occasion.

Welcome. Olive Oaks is stunning four acre property, with a spectacular garden, vinyard views and pool. This special location is very private, yet feels open and expansive. We are located in Sebastopol, West Sonoma County, an area treaured for it's landscape, coastline, restaurants, vinyards and relaxed sophistication. Olive Oaks is filled inside and out with unique vintage treasures, achieved with years of collecting by the property owners. A barn with white interior may be used for dancing, catering, so many possibilities. The guest cottage is available for overnight rental. Shuttle and portable toilet rental are required, depending on guest count.

Arista is a small, family owned winery, nestled amongst the bucolic countryside and world-renowned vineyards of Sonoma County’s Russian River Valley. The Arista estate boasts 36-acres of land, featuring stunning vineyards, serene gardens, century old oak trees, and sweeping views of Mount Saint Helena. With a variety of spaces and a diversity of elevation, Arista Winery is a venue-oasis; a cherished destination for all who visit. A collection of event spaces, conveniently distributed throughout the property, call attention to the natural beauty of the vineyard-dotted countryside, promoting the perfect backdrop for your exclusive wedding or special event. To ensure that every wedding receives the attention to detail it deserves, we limit our bookings to a select number each year. As such, we only host 15 weddings annually, allowing us to focus wholeheartedly on crafting exceptional moments for our couples.

You are at such an exciting point in your life. And you are already dreaming of your special day ... Ru's Farm is a truly wonderful place that combines the very best of Sonoma’s wine country and farm lands ... rolling estate vineyards, amazing gardens and lawns, and an incredible barn built in 1902. Towering over it all is our 100-year old majestic cork oak tree, which really does add a special magic to the whole place. The barn, gardens, lawn, vineyards and farm buildings are all places where you can create your own magic. The garden has an abundance of plants and flowers including lavender, roses, rosemary, and sage - along with fruit + olive trees. The lawn looks out over the vineyards + is perfectly situated to watch the valley glow as the sun sets. There are even farm cottages to get ready in before your guests arrive. We are all about the details + providing you with a breathless backdrop. We know these are memories will last for a lifetime, we would be honored to host you.

Located in one of the most sought out wine country locations, our expansive tasting room feels cozy, yet modern. With a statement mural and historic brick wall balanced by modern furniture and decor. Our industrial style metal and brick building situated across the river was one of the original locations for fruit drying in our small town. Now converted into a tasting room nestled between other amazing wine brands. This is a great venue for corporate events, wine education, wedding welcome parties and rehearsal dinners. Casual cocktail style events to formal catered dinners are some of our specialties. Our Tasting Room is available for rental for groups from 20 to 100 guests. Each rental can be customized to fit your event needs. We are happy to discuss options for planning the perfect event for you!

Little Saint’s 10,000-square-foot space is a vibrant meeting place inviting guests to connect over food, music, art, and conversation. The two-story building is multi-dimensional, with the first floor as a casual and approachable 100% plant based cafe and lounge that makes you feel as if you are relaxing in Healdsburg’s very own living room. The upstairs is where you will find the dedicated events space with a performance stage and our elevated vegan dining restaurant, The Second Story. The performance stage has been graced by incredible talents like Rufus Wainwright, Phoebe Bridgers, Boygenius, and many more. Little Saint will inspire you to make the space your own with various opportunities to bring your event vision to life, from a casual-cool wedding ceremony to branded company outings, intimate VIP birthdays, and after-parties to keep the celebrations going.

Welcome. At The Madrona, guests get lost in the magic of their surroundings. Up the hill and beyond the trees to discover mother nature’s pleasures. The Madrona is home to half an acre of gardens that fill our kitchen, bar, and guest rooms with the scents and flavors of the region. Created in partnership with Aris Curtis, a passionate voice for the regenerative farming movement, our gardens are meant to be wandered, enjoyed, and cherished. Gracious and artful dining to inspire moments of joy, connection, imagination, and merriment. The freshest ingredients grown in the estate’s garden, the uninhibited creativity of our culinary team, the breathtaking backdrop of verdant California in full flush.

Riggers Loft is situated on the edge of the San Francisco Bay. It is urban chic with high loft ceilings and wooden trusses that invite further decoration. The venue is filled with windows looking out onto the bay with the city skyline directly across the bay. The inside space is 7000 square feet with a footprint that is malleable, and is easily and beautifully delineated by racks of wine barrels. Outside is a 5000 square foot patio overlooking the bay. Many lovely ceremonies have taken place there with sailboats drifting by, and seagulls and sea lions making their entrances as well.

Olema House seamlessly blends rustic wilderness with a modern-eclectic style. Imagine tranquil, verdant surroundings that bring the magic and natural wonder of Northern California to life. With idyllic views of Olema Creek, the Inverness Ridge and Mt. Wittenberg, our twenty-two guest rooms and two cottages bridge the area’s picture-perfect locale with Olema House’s thoughtful and elegant accommodations. Parties may take advantage of the intimate setting with a full property buy-out, allowing exclusive use of the grounds.

Trentadue Winery welcomes you to our charming, rustic winery wedding venue. Framed by oak tree covered mountains and nestled in the Alexander Valley, you can rest assured that you will have an exquisite backdrop for your special day. We offer a variety of indoor and outdoor venues. Trentadue's Sala De Leon Pavilion offers lovely French doors allowing for a scenic indoor venue. Our outdoor spaces can accommodate both intimate and grand weddings. We provide an old-world Italian vineyard venue with matured redwood trees and an elegant vine arbor suitable for dining in the heart of the vineyard. With our spectacular mountains, vineyard views and our wine country venue, we can assure you that your wedding will be a unique and memorable experience here at Trentadue Winery.

Our historic Old Stone Building, two stories of Old World masonry and spectacular Douglas Fir wood beams, presents an ideal setting for your wedding celebration. The beautifully landscaped grounds provide a memorable backdrop for your special event. This site is a wonderful setting for an indoor and outdoor wedding, with options to hold the ceremony both in the Stone Building overlooking the vineyards or on the lawn beside bocce courts, surrounded by vineyards. The Old Stone Building is the perfect setting for the most spectacular day, providing an incredible backdrop for capturing that special picture, a classically beautiful room for dinner, and the space to dance the night away.

The Historic Highland Dell Lodge in Monte Rio, California was established shortly after the 1906 earthquake, has kept its name over the decades and became a favorite vacation destination for generations. Under current management since 2004 we're taking pride in trying our best to maintain the tranquility and 'Old World Charm' of this magnificent old house. We have 12 guest rooms, a full bar, restaurant & event space.

Welcome. deLorimier Winery will entice your senses with award-winning wines, stunning vineyard views, and intimate wedding settings. Celebrate your nuptials in style, and let your dreams unfold. Our venue offers the Cabana Courtyard with a fountain, spacious tasting room, beautiful patio, and lawn surrounded by the vineyards!

Nestled in the heart of wine country, Hammerling Wines offers an intimate setting perfect for couples seeking a blend of rustic charm and modern elegance. Guests can enjoy breathtaking vineyard views, while the experienced staff ensures every detail is taken care of. With a focus on locally sourced cuisine and handcrafted wines, this venue promises a memorable and unique celebration.

Nestled between Sonoma County's gorgeous Dry Creek and Alexander Valleys with sweeping views of the Mayacamas Mountains. A wisteria covered pergola, spacious lawns, luscious landscaping and vineyard views, quiet yet connected, the Geyserville Inn is easily accessible to Highway 101, located six miles north of the iconic small town of Healdsburg. Locally owned and operated by two generations of Christensen family members and within minutes of some of Sonoma County’s most celebrated wineries, the Geyserville Inn is a destination wedding venue that will provide you and your guests with an unforgettable experience. On-site lodging at the Inn allows everyone to enjoy elevated accommodations during your special occasion.

Welcome. Outdoor weddings at Yin Ranch take place under a permanent gazebo structure, situated on our beautifully landscaped and willow tree-shaded island, accessible by a walking bridge. The island is perfectly set-up for your walk down the aisle to say your vows, with room to seat up to 200 guests. Surrounded by the beauty of the blue-green waters, you’ll find this to be an idyllic site for your wedding ceremony. For the ultimate in dramatic entrances, consider a trip around the lake in a horse-drawn carriage for the bride and her father. After the ceremony, a cocktail hour can take place on the spacious grassy area nearby, then the reception can be held at the Pavilion or Vista Point, or arrange for a tent to enjoy the evening under twinkling lights amid Yin Ranch’s lush scenery.

Originally built in 1934 as an operating beet sugar refinery, the Old Sugar Mill now hosts fifteen unique wineries offering varietals from all over Northern California. Located in the heart of Clarksburg, CA, just fifteen minutes south of downtown Sacramento, the Old Sugar Mill is the perfect place for your wedding, social or corporate event. Our Industrial Wine Country setting is where memories will be treasured for a lifetime. At Old Sugar Mill, we are passionate about creating unforgettable experiences. We believe your special event deserves to be orchestrated by a caring and accomplished team set in a historic and iconic winery venue. From our old-world brick Boiler Room to our charming and quaint French Quarter, the unique character of our property will provide a rich and diverse backdrop for your celebration. OSM can scale events from intimate to grand and can accommodate any size occasion.

Congratulations and thank you for expressing interest in spending your special day with us at Julietta Winery. We look forward to assisting you with planning and preparations to make your celebration full of magical memories. Julietta Winery is located just 20 minutes south of downtown Sacramento, in the beautiful rural town of Clarksburg, CA. Our winery provides beautiful indoor and outdoor settings. Enjoy the serenity of a gentle flowing waterway that runs the length of the property and a variety of colorful flowers, trees, and grapevines throughout, the delta breezes, and gorgeous sunsets. The large lush grass area can accommodate a tent for additional covered event space. Anything you can imagine, we can make happen! Whether you are planning a large group or a small intimate event we have the prefect space to make the day special. You can use a caterer of your choice, or there is plenty of space for food trucks.

Versatility! Our passion is for you to have the wedding YOU want, so we've made that easy. You will have exclusive use of the entire venue on your wedding day with up to 6-hours of prep time and 6-hours for your event. Want to party later? We offer late hours until 2am if your heart desires. Enjoy your ceremony on the lawn with the pond as your backdrop, the redwood trees or the barn. Do you prefer the patio? The bandstand provides a perfect ceremony backdrop. Inside? Sure! Or, at Oak Tree Terrace with its stadium seating between two ancient oaks. Dinner on the lawn or patio with up to 250 during mild weather is awesome! The interior can seat up to 125 at tables for other times of the year. Enjoy dancing on the patio or in the ballroom. Both are great options. The bar - absolutely gorgeous - is inside, next to the ballroom. We have fabulous prep rooms - 1 included in every package but you can add on two more!

Welcome! If you’re here, you’re probably in search of an easy, gorgeous outdoor wedding venue near Sacramento where you get to let your personality shine AND there’s plenty of support along the way. You’re probably newly engaged, incredibly excited about this great new life adventure you’re embarking on, and also maybe a little bit overwhelmed with all the ins and outs of wedding planning. That’s where we come in. We get it. We know how much you’re putting into your wedding details, and we’re here to partner with you as you sort through all the stress and craziness.