The Best Historic Estate & Mansion Wedding Venues in Wilmington, DE

The Best Historic Estate & Mansion Wedding Venues in Wilmington, DE

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11 Wedding Venues in Wilmington, DE

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Cairnwood Estate 

5.0

  • Up to 230 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $3,000

For over a century, Cairnwood has been hosting wedding receptions within its halls. The tradition began with John and Gertrude Pitcairn opening their home for a marriage celebration in 1896. Today, the Estate is available for sit-down dinners with 200 guests or an opulent stations-style event for up to 275. The graciousness of the Estate provides a setting that departs from the ordinary with endless indoor and outdoor possibilities. The distinguished architecture, terraces, grand staircase, balconies, and flowering gardens inspire couples to welcome guests into their own spacious mansion for a unique and memorable celebration.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away
  • Space for a large guest list
  • Natural elegance with open spaces

Venue considerations

  • Limited cleanup and setup services
  • No free parking
  • Best for events with big guest lists
Awarded Best of Zola
The team at Cairnwood was great to work with from our first tour til our wedding day. They are very helpful with finding additional vendors including hotel blocks and shuttles. We had the wedding of our dreams thanks to this venue!
Karli K., 5 months ago
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The Arches 

5.0

  • Up to 170 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $3,800

The Arches venue, known as St. Cecilia’s and St. Stan’s are the two newest venues in Western Chester County. During the ongoing revitalization project in Coatesville, the goal was to repurpose these beautiful churches into event spaces and to preserve their rich history. You get to choose which venue is the perfect location for you and your special event. Our beautiful venues are the perfect backdrop for your wedding. ceremony, cocktail hour, reception, corporate function, family reunion, or any other special event. We look forward to helping you create lifetime memories at The Arches.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has a dance floor for celebration
  • Classic, vintage atmosphere
  • Bridal suite on site

Venue considerations

  • No built-in audiovisual options
  • On-site parking not available
  • Limited cleanup and setup services
Awarded Best of Zola
Our experience at The Arches for my daughter's wedding was nothing short of extraordinary. From the moment we stepped inside, we were captivated by the venue’s stunning architecture. The Arches is an old cathedral that has been lovingly renovated into a wedding venue, and it retains all of its historic charm. The intricate stained glass windows, soaring arched beams, and gorgeous stonework created the most breathtaking and romantic atmosphere for the big day. What truly sets The Arches apart, though, is the care and dedication of the owner, Jane. She went above and beyond at every turn, ensuring that every detail was perfect and that we felt supported throughout the planning process. Her warmth, professionalism, and attention to detail are unmatched. One moment that really stood out was when a snowstorm was forecasted just days before the wedding. Naturally, we were stressed about how this would affect our guests, but Jane immediately stepped in to help. She not only coordinated with a local hotel to secure discounted rates for our guests but also arranged transportation options to ensure everyone could attend safely. It was an incredible relief to have someone so thoughtful and proactive on our side. Thanks to The Arches and Jane, my daughter’s wedding day was everything we dreamed it would be and more. The guests couldn’t stop raving about the venue’s timeless beauty and warm ambiance (even with the snow), and we’ll always remember how special they made this once-in-a-lifetime celebration. If you’re looking for a wedding venue with breathtaking beauty, rich history, and unmatched service, The Arches is the place to go—it’s truly exceptional!
Laurie R., a month ago
HOTEL DU PONT 

5.0

Wilmington, DE
  • Up to 275 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor
  • Starts at $30,000

Elegant. Timeless. Iconic. HOTEL DU PONT sets a beautiful stage for your wedding in Wilmington, Delaware. Celebrate your love story in the storied elegance and rich traditions of one of the most prestigious hotels in the world. HOTEL DU PONT features more than 25,000 square feet of event space, including two event ready ballrooms. From glittering chandeliers and gilded rosettes to soaring ceilings and dramatic handcrafted staircases, every detail highlights Wilmington's rich past and cosmopolitan present. With stunning architecture dating back to 1913 and a reputation for impeccable service, the HOTEL DU PONT offers a dramatic, historic location that is truly unforgettable. We'll turn your vision into the celebration of your dreams.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Accommodates more than 200 guests
  • Has a dance floor for celebration
  • Offers full-service amenities

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you are looking for something nontraditional
  • Lighting and sound are not included
  • Venue feels large for events with small guest lists
Awarded Best of Zola
Shellie and the Hotel Du Pont team are total pros. They were very accommodating throughout the process and were always willing to work with us to make our day as special as possible. The food and drinks were all terrific and the service was exceptional. We were attracted to Hotel Du Pont as a venue because of the opportunity to host a “Wedding Weekend” and not only did we get to pull that off, but Hotel Du Pont made it a better experience than we could have hoped for. Great food, beautiful ballrooms and accommodations, and a professional and friendly staff made this a home run wedding venue for us.
Bayley S., 8 months ago
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The Carriage House In Rockwood Park 

4.0

Wilmington, DE
  • Up to 225 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $11,999

Spectacular setting on the grounds of a 19th century country estate Indoor and outdoor ceremony locations amidst lush gardens or a captivating Carriage House Extensive and exquisite menu selections Personal event coordinator for impeccable service Over 40 years experience of culinary excellence

Why you'll love this venue

  • Handles all cleanup logistics
  • Accommodates more than 200 guests
  • Classic seating dinner

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you are looking for something nontraditional
  • Best for events with big guest lists
  • No on-premises lodging options
Awarded Best of Zola
We had the most incredible experience hosting our wedding at the Carriage house! It has been taken over by Prime Hospitality catering who did an amazing job from start to finish! Our guests raved over the food, waitstaff, and bartenders! Katie and her team took care of every single aspect of our wedding which allowed my husband and I, our families, and our bridal party to be stress free and enjoy the day! I could go on and on about how amazing our wedding day was! Not a single thing went wrong, Katie and her team decorated the venue beautifully, the service was fantastic, and our guests continue to reach out about how beautiful the wedding venue was. It was better than I could’ve ever expected! I hope that the Carriage House starts to see an increase in weddings at their venue because they are truly amazing at their job! Katie coordinated and helped me with planning the wedding out from day 1. She worked relentlessly behind the scenes to ensure we had a great day. The food was the best wedding meal I have ever had and I’m not just saying that because I had my wedding here. The restaurant associated with the caterers “Brandywine Prime” makes amazing food. I will admit when initially wedding planning I was unsure of the carriage house due to the lack of online presence and photos of recent weddings. It is truly a hidden gem and definitely worth considering for your wedding day!!
Rachel and T., 7 months ago
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Dupont Country Club And Brantwyn Estate 

5.0

Wilmington, DE
  • Up to 250 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $5,000

The DuPont Country Club and Historic Brantwyn Estate are located in the picturesque Brandywine Valley in Wilmington, Delaware. The DuPont Ballroom is an ideal site for your lavish wedding reception with accommodations up to 250 guests. The Upper Terrace provides a grand view of our breathtaking golf course for your guests to enjoy during cocktail hour. Brantwyn Estate is located on the grounds of The DuPont Country Club. It is a former du Pont family residence and is a perfect example of Georgian charm situated on 60 acres of wooded landscape full of photographic opportunities. The estate's cultured country manor setting with its lush formal gardens offers a splendid backdrop any time of the year. Feel free to visit our website and take a virtual tour at DuPont Country Club. com

Why you'll love this venue

  • Accommodates more than 200 guests
  • Has a dance floor for celebration
  • Designed for grand celebrations

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you are looking for something nontraditional
  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
  • No on-premises lodging options
Awarded Best of Zola
Erin at Brantwyn Estates is great to work with! We (Dover Tents & Events) are always in communication when scheduling tent installs for weddings held on the property; she is wonderful with keeping us updated on any adjustments needed or time restrictions. The grounds crew is also fantastic, always has power run for lighting and expecting us upon arrival.
Meghan Garrison, 4 years ago
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Bellevue Hall 

5.0

Wilmington, DE
  • Up to 250 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor

This notable estate is truly a one-of-a-kind property at which to host your wedding celebration. The mansion was built in the 1850’s and is the former home of William DuPont Sr. and his family. Your ceremony can be held on the sprawling lawn alongside a charming gazebo and gorgeous perennial garden. An elegant reception then follows beneath a pristine clear outdoor tent or, for a more intimate crowd, in one of the mansion’s luxurious indoor rooms. Bellevue Hall features stylish dining rooms, elaborate marble fireplaces, a sophisticated wood-paneled library, and an enormous central foyer with a grand staircase. Celebrate your happy occasion at Bellevue Hall. It’s sure to be a memorable event!

Why you'll love this venue

  • Space for a large guest list
  • Both indoor and outdoor options
  • Dressing room available

Venue considerations

  • Dance floor not included
  • No on-premises lodging options
  • Does not allow pets
I have photographed multiple weddings at Bellevue Hall, and it is by far one of my favorite venues to work at! The property is gorgeous, the mansion makes such a stunning backdrop for getting-ready portraits and cocktail hour, and even the outdoor reception tent is beautiful! I love watching the horses frolic while the most stunning sunsets fall behind the reception tent. The venue and catering staff are the best in the industry and treat all couples, guests, and vendors like royalty. And the food is absolutely delicious! If you want to have a seamless wedding day where you are able to fully focus on celebrating with your loved ones, look no further!
Carrie Kizuka, a year ago
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The Farmhouse 

5.0

Wilmington, DE
  • Up to 190 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $7,500
  • Offer

Conveniently located in Wilmington, Delaware, The Farmhouse is family owned and operated and hosts one event per day. The historical estate boasts a beautiful outdoor ceremony site underneath romantic willow trees & four acres of manicured grounds and gardens. Hosting up to 190 guests, the Farmhouse offers numerous indoor spaces for your event including the bright and open main terrace hall, indoor lounge and bar, dressing suites and more. Outside, a large wrap around deck and patio overlook the gazebo bar & gardens. The Farmhouse is proud to be a women-owned business, still managed by the fourth generation of the Murray family. As a small family-run business, the Farmhouse provides a personal touch and flexibility in hosting your dream wedding.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Lush gardens
  • Pets can join the celebration
  • Dressing room available

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you are drawn to more unconventional venues
  • No built-in audiovisual options
  • Not for you if you prefer a more modern aesthetic
Awarded Best of Zola
From the moment we first reached out, the team at The Farmhouse was responsive, clear, and professional in their communication. Their charming, elegant, and comforting venue provided the perfect backdrop for our special day. The staff's attention to detail and genuine connection with us and our extended family made us feel right at home. We couldn't have asked for a more perfect setting to celebrate our marriage, and we're so grateful to The Farmhouse for helping to make our wedding day so memorable and thank you to Laura who rocked this entire event for us! We could not have done this without you.
Courtney and N., 3 months ago
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Hagley Museum And Library 
Wilmington, DE
  • Up to 150 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor

Hagley Museum and Library is an historic wedding venue in Wilmington, Delaware. The venue is located on the property of a nineteenth-century estate, the original home of the du Pont family, now home to Hagley Museum. With 235 acres of grassy meadows, towering trees, and historic heirloom gardens along the banks of the Brandywine River, you're sure to capture incredible photos of your special day. The property features three distinct event facilities for hosting weddings, the capacity varying from an intimate gathering of 20 guests or fewer, to an outdoor celebration with 200 guests.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Offers full-service amenities
  • Both indoor and outdoor options
  • Dressing room available

Venue considerations

  • Does not allow pets
  • No all-inclusive dining options
  • Not wheelchair accessible
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Terrain at Styer's 

5.0

Glen Mills, PA
  • Up to 110 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $4,000

Terrain at Styer's, is located on the historic site of J. Franklin Styer's nursery, a Philadelphia landmark for over 100 years. With over five acres of everchanging blooms and greenery combined with a variety of historic spaces, the property serves as a stunning setting for celebrations of all kinds for up to 110 people. In addition to our bespoke event spaces, Terrain at Styer’s boasts a terrain retail store and Terrain Cafe. Terrain at Styer's is located just 40 minutes outside of Philadelphia at 914 Baltimore Pike Glen Mills, PA 19342.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away
  • Private area for the wedding party
  • Wheelchair accessible

Venue considerations

  • No on-site guest accommodations
  • Not for you if you are drawn to more unconventional venues
  • Not for you if you don't want a rustic vibe
Awarded Best of Zola
Having our wedding at Terrain was an 11/10 experience. We felt prioritized, cared for and the staff was so genuine from the start to finish. Carla made the planning process a breeze and was able to gage my personality and my needs. The attendees were by our side the whole day of the wedding catering to us filling us with such joy and love. We appreciated the personable experience from the moment we reached out to inquire about the venue to the moment we left the night of the wedding. We couldn’t have asked for more.” We want to give a huge thank you to ALL of the staff and anyone involved with making our day so special. We will remember the attention to detail and being cared for to the MAX. I will NOT stop recommending this venue to anyone and EVERYONE. WE LOVE TERRAIN.
Sadie, 4 months ago

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About wedding venues in Wilmington, DE

How much do wedding venues typically cost in Wilmington, DE?

The cost of a wedding venue varies widely by location, number of guests, and many other details of the wedding package. Wilmington, DE offers a range of options that can fit most budgets. Raw venue space rentals (which only include the space itself) start at $750 and average $1,200. All-inclusive packages start at $100 and average $5,000.

What types of venues can I find in Wilmington, DE?

Wilmington offers a wide range of venues, including Ballroom, Historic estate and Hotel and resort.

What are some of the best wedding and reception venues available in Wilmington, DE?

Some of the most popular venues in this area include Thousand Acre Farm, The Farmhouse and Bellevue Hall. But just like finding "the one," finding the perfect wedding venue takes time and a little bit of magic. Start by envisioning your dream wedding - the ambiance, style, and location. Then, explore our extensive collection of carefully curated wedding venues. Our marketplace provides detailed information, stunning photos, and real couples' reviews to help you make an informed decision. Trust your instincts, and when you find that venue that gives you butterflies, you'll know it's the one.

What questions should I ask when booking a venue in Wilmington, DE?

It all depends on what you're looking for, but you may want to consider things like whether the venue has an on-site bridal suite (73% in Wilmington do) or whether the venue provides an event coordinator (82% in Wilmington do!).

Additionally, some venues work with certain caterers and require a minimum food and beverage spend in addition to the space rentals. Others might have a recommended list of preferred caterers that they'd like you to work with.

Can the venues in Wilmington, DE accommodate both small and large weddings?

Of course! Small wedding venues in Wilmington, DE can host intimate parties while large venues can accommodate up to 3000. The average venue in Wilmington can seat 150 guests.

What amenities do the reception venues in Wilmington, DE offer?

The venues in Wilmington, DE are known for the exceptional suite of services and amenities offered to couples and their wedding parties. The most common services provided are Wheelchair accessible, Event staff and Service staff. Some venues even offer Transportation!

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